Put Your Hands Up

We went and got our fingerprints done on Monday (for our background checks), and I'm not going to lie. It was the worst. Mike and I made it almost out the door of the county jail before I promptly burst into tears. Ya'll...I was so scared.

Now, I know I just don't handle things super well all the time, but the whole experience just really upset me. Why? Well, first, it's a jail. A blue and white cinderblock jail. With prisoners.

When we first got there, we let them know why we were there and a guy came to get us. He let us know that we could only go back one at a time. Okay, no problem. I mean, we could probably bust some people out of there together if we really tried, and I think they sensed a little Bonnie and Clyde in us. But really, those are the rules and it makes sense.

Mike went first, and he was back there forever. Long enough for me to decide that they had arrested him because we still had our Texas drivers licenses anyway. Or maybe something had happened and everyone back there had been taken hostage, and I just had no idea. I watch way too many crime dramas. Finally, he came back out, and it was my turn.

Let me be brief. Me and an officer. In a tiny room. Printer broken. Officer mad. Officer shouting obscenities and hitting the printer. Me trying not to cry because I just wanted to leave. Prisoners standing outside the room watching me. Kind of uncomfortable.

Guy brought into the room with me in handcuffs. Try not to make eye contact because I have no idea what crime he committed. Start praying printer will work so officer will stop screaming and give me my fingerprints. Second officer takes other guy's handcuffs off. I think, great, this guy's about to completely overpower everyone in this tiny room and take me hostage. Or snap my neck. Printer works. Officer tells me I can go. Walk out passing the prisoners in their holding rooms. Meet Mike in the lobby. Walk out. Burst into tears. Got it? I don't either.

Mike agreed that the officer was a scary guy, and eventually I quit crying. And I figure if that's the most stressful thing that happens during this process, we'll be doing pretty good.

PS: If you are the handcuffed guy who was with me in that little tiny room, I'm sure you are a very nice person who had a bad day. I am sorry I thought you were going to try to kill me. I was a little stressed about all the yelling. Please forgive me.

One Step Closer

Yesterday was a very exciting day in our adoption journey. Our profile is now available for birthmothers to view! Basically, that means that we could be picked as parents at any time!

Obviously, it could take up to year (or more) to be chosen, but it could also be a week. We have a busy week ahead of us with FBI fingerprinting and home study stuff. That means paperwork, paperwork, paperwork. I just pray that it will be done quickly and without complications and hang-ups. There always seems to be just one more thing to do, but that's just part of the process. And it will all be worth it in the end!

Multiple Choice

First, I would like to say that I promise all of my posts won't become about things I want to buy. But...I have something much more serious that travel bags to purchase. Bedding for our new room. Consider the bags the pre-test. You have shown yourselves worthy. Now on to the big stuff. Let me know which one you like the best. Pretty please.

And next time, I promise to talk about better stuff. Like which rug I should get for the living room. Just for the record, I want this one in blue.

1. From Bed Bath and Beyond:


2. From Linens n Things (It comes in Blue and Brown too!)


3. From Macy's


4. From Macy's

Question of the Day

Okay, you know that I usually reserve my blog for very serious and brilliant conversation. However, I have a serious problem I need help with! I mean SERIOUS!

Now that we will be traveling more often, I would like to get some new travel bags. But there are so many cute ones! So...leave your opinion in the comments. Which pattern do you like best?

1.Cinda B Sweetleaf Navy

2.Cinda B Casablanca Purple

3.Vera Bradley Yellow Bird

4. Cinda B Ravinia Black

Lovin' the Pottery

If there is one thing I have noticed about Mississippians so far, it is that they take their pottery very seriously. Did I just never notice in Texas, or is it just bigger here?? I'm not sure.

At any rate, I have a new favorite that I had to show you: Etta B Pottery. SO cute!

I'm going to need this:



And This:



And don't even get me started on this: